If you want to learn how to be an alpha male, you have to know two things first: 1) Becoming one won't be easy 2) You need to know what you are doing. If you start with the wrong thing, you will never be one.
That's why you need to know where to start and what to focus on, if you want to be an alpha male. This is exactly what this article is about.
There are men who have absolutely no problem going up to every woman they see. But what exactly makes them so different from everyone else? The answer: their mindset!
If you too struggle with approaching the girls you like, then here are 11 important mindset shifts you must make before you can approach the women you want.
For some guys, it is really hard to get rid of their ego because they identify with it so much. However, everyone who wants to have success with women, needs to know that their ego is holding them back.
That's why this article tackles the ego problem and gives you advice what to do when ego gets in your way.
If you go out often, meet a lot of people and approach women, you will encounter rejection. Most of us have faced rejection before, and for some, this isn't a big deal. They can just shrug it off and move on. For the majority of guys however, rejection is something that is terrifying and many do anything to avoid it.
Not a lot of men can honestly say that they have been together with many women. Although we are biologically wired to chase as many women as possible, only a couple of men have actually done that. In fact, most men would be happy to find just one girl.
But there are also guys, who date many women at a time and never worry if about finding the one. These guys live in total abundance. What's even more fascinating - there's only one thing making them different from the average Joe.
There are some things that make the jerk far better than the nice guy. Maybe the most distinct one is the success with the opposite sex, because women often prefer a jerk over a nice dude. And there is actually a very good explanation for that.
You see, although he is called the nice guy, some of his motives aren't that nice. In fact, some are even worse than the motives of a jerk.
Most guys wish they could just attract women naturally. All they would have to do is to walk into a room and have every girl there fighting over them. But sadly, this is not their reality. For some guys however, this is actually what happens. It's all because they know something that the rest doesn't.
There is a reason why girls are attracted to one guy and not the other. No, it's not because of his looks or how much money he has got in his bank account, the answer is much simpler than that.
Have you ever seen these Hollywood movies where the man confesses his never ending love to the woman and adds something like "you complete me" or "I can't live without you"? Isn't that beautiful?
Well, actually no! It's terrible! It's not even because of the words he uses but because of the mindset he is coming from. You see, whenever you start seeing a girl you date as someone who completes you, you will start heading down a road that will not have a happy ending for you.
If you haven't done it yet, read my previous post What is the Alpha Male Mentality and then come back to this one. This article here will add some details I did not mention in my previous post about the mindset of an alpha.
The thing about becoming an alpha male is that it can sometimes be a bit confusing why exactly you would want to be one.
What kind of man do women actually want? If you would ask one, most likely her answer would be "a nice guy". But me and you already know that this is just a lie! Right?
The reason, why women will always give the same answer to this question and why so many guys think that this is the right way to go is, because it is actually true. However, if you take a closer look at how they would define this word, you will start to see major differences.
The name of this website is Alpha Male Mentality, so it's pretty obvious that this article is about… Wait? What exactly is it about? What is the alpha male mentality?
If you ever wondered about what kind of mindset will help you to become successful not only with women but in many different aspects of life, then this article will hopefully give you the answers you are looking for.