Welcome to Alpha Male Mentality

Whenever you start dating a girl you really like, you naturally hope that she is the one. Who knows, maybe she will even be the one you will spend the rest of your life with? But there is just one problem: some relationships are not meant to last.

Some relationships are doomed right at the beginning because you make some mistakes that eventually lead to its downfall. These mistakes don't even have to be that big. They are something you just always have done and you don't even notice them until it's too late.

Most guys wish they could just attract women naturally. All they would have to do is to walk into a room and have every girl there fighting over them. But sadly, this is not their reality. For some guys however, this is actually what happens. It's all because they know something that the rest doesn't.

There is a reason why girls are attracted to one guy and not the other. No, it's not because of his looks or how much money he has got in his bank account, the answer is much simpler than that.

Some guys just don't know how to flirt with women. What's even worse, they don't even recognize when a girl is flirting with them. They are basically oblivious in their interactions with the opposite sex.

Now, I have to admit that flirting isn't something that comes naturally for most of us. In fact, we really suck at it. But just like most things, we can actually do something about it.

Who of us doesn't want to become an alpha male? The thing is however, that many guys who learn the initial steps to get a girlfriend usually revert back to their old ways after getting into a relationship with her. All because they haven't yet internalized what they learned.

If you are naturally an insecure type of person, you have the habit of always taking everything more personal than you should. But when you get into a relationship with a girl you really like and you can't let go of your insecurities, this relationship is not going to last very long.

You see, whenever you start a relationship with another person, you have to understand that they chose you for a reason. They are together with you because they want to! So the very last thing you should do is to start doubting in this reason.

Life is just too damn short to do everything the hard way and that's why we all look for shortcuts. Shortcuts are actually really great! There is nothing wrong with finding one that saves you time and energy – time and energy you can spend on something you value more. But the problem arises when we take it too far and start to look for shortcuts in everything we do.