The Dating Black Book Review

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In this review, I am going to give you an overview what this book is all about and why I think you should get it. The Dating Black Book is the second book by Carlos Xuma I have read about male-female interactions (The Secrets of The Alpha Man being the first). Like the name already says, its main focus lays on the dating aspect of relationships.

It’s a beginner’s book, but if you think you wouldn’t learn anything from it, you are mistaken. When I started reading it, I couldn’t believe that there was so much I still didn’t know about and this book helped me to clarify misconceptions I had (and keep in mind, I have read advanced books before this one). To be honest, I don’t even know why it’s for beginners, because this material you will find in this book is pretty advanced.


What Can You Expect from The Dating Black Book?

If you have no experiences with attracting women, you can be assured that this is the right material for you. Even if you think you already know enough about dating women, it will change your mind. This book by Carlos Xuma lays the foundation on dating, attracting and approaching women. It gives you the mindset needed to interact with them in a way an alpha male does.

The one thing here we have to make absolutely clear right away is that this eBook won’t give you a quick fix. Just like in life, there are no shortcuts in getting good with women. Everyone who tells you otherwise is lying. If you don’t know how to attract beautiful women, don’t search for a quick solution. You definitely won’t find it here!

Also, you have to know that this material in this book is no “feel good” stuff. Xuma won’t sugarcoat anything and tells you frankly the harsh truth about relationships. So, you have to be prepared that some things you read about might come to you as a shock, because it could change the way you think.


How Will this Book Help You?

The Dating Black Book is filled with valuable advice for every man who wants to have a real alpha male mentality.  It focuses more on the male-female relationship than just some gimmicks that may or may not help you to get the woman. It will help you to develop a mindset that gives you more confidence and authenticity around women you meet. You get a glimpse into their psyche and learn why they behave the way they do - what makes women tick.

This eBook can really be an eye opener. It will teach you to live your life by certain rules and when following them, you will change the way you think about the opposite sex. After reading it, you realize the mistakes you made in the past interactions and know how to avoid them in the future. In short, it changes your beliefs and views about human interactions and makes you more attractive to women.

You could even say this book gives you the motivation to change your lifestyle (it certainly did it for me). After you have read it, you will want to change and not to live a life of mediocrity anymore. It may sound a bit cliche but believe me - after reading it, you will realize that you could achieve much more than you thought possible.


Who Will Benefit From it?

Every man will benefit from this book. If you are single, you learn how to get a girlfriend (if you are searching for one). If you already are in a relationship or even married, you will make her happy by treating her the way she secretly wants to be treated.

Don’t take the word “dating” in this book so literally. I can assure you, everyone male being will definitely benefit from the information in this book because it’s not only about relationships.



The Dating Black Book is easy to read and easy to understand. Carlos lays everything out so even a beginner will have no problems following it.  It clears up many beliefs about thing guys still struggle with and helps them to become more confident about their own masculinity. After finishing this book, you will understand the dynamics of a relationship between a man and a woman.

It is so much more than just a simple guide to attracting women. You could even say that it makes you a better person because it forces you to improve yourself. What else can I say? Hey, if you still doubt my words, go and see for yourself!

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