A woman in a bed reading a text message.

How2TxtHer (How to Text Her) is a texting video course created by Christian Hudson, the founder of The Social Man.

The focus of this course is to provide you with the mindset as well as the skills to create strong emotional connections over text messages and get women to meet up with you. It takes a detailed look into the nuances and sub-communication of text game.

This isn’t your average run-of-the-mill product that provides you with specific texting examples for every possible situation imaginable but actually teaches you to look at what goes on behind a text exchange and how you can improve yours.

If you are already somewhat proficient in getting phone numbers but struggle with getting women to meet you, then this is the right course for you.

What to Expect from How2TxtHer?

This video course consists of 12 modules. This comes to about 4 hours of video material, not including the bonuses (more on them below).

Additionally, there is a 165 paged transcript of every module (in ebook format) that goes into more detail about things like texting examples and advice that wasn’t discussed in the videos.

While this might not seem like much, this program covers a lot of ground in a short time span and will leave you feeling that you learned everything you needed to.

There are a couple of things you should know, though. Although Christian dedicates two modules to getting numbers and sending the first text message, which can definitely be very beneficial for newbies, How2TxtHer presumes you are already somewhat familiar with texting women.

It also assumes that you aren’t talking to a total stranger and have met her at least once. That’s why it focuses mainly on building a sense of familiarity and comfort with a woman over text messages.

This means that when you finally meet up with her, she will already have a pretty good idea of what kind of guy you are.

Another thing worth mentioning here is the style in which the program is presented.

Since The Social Man company focuses on teaching guys how to find life partners and become better men (not really the usual pick-up advice), this reflects in all the presented text examples that have this unique gentlemanly, and classy style.

This will work very well on mature women – who make great girlfriends and long-term partners. However, this might not work on every girl.

In case you’re looking for a style that’s more playful and works well on younger women, the Options Texting System is a better alternative.

The program also has two guest speakers that bring their individual perspectives to texting. One of them being Rob Judge who came out with his own texting course, the Magnetic Messaging (excellent for total beginners).

The other is Nick Sparks, who has been working with Christian for some time and is known to be a great dating coach.

Although their input in this program is quite minimal, they still manage to give you an excellent overview of their unique styles (you could duplicate) and teach you a thing or two about texting.

Why You Should Get How2TxtHer

There are some things that I think make this program stand out from the rest.

One of them is that it acknowledges the idea of competition. It’s no secret that hot girls get texts from many different guys.

So, when you are texting a girl you like, you can be sure, that you are in competition with other men. That’s why Christian teaches you how to make yourself stand out from all the other guys texting her by adding personality to your text messages.

Another thing How2TxtHer teaches is creating a broad range of different emotions in a woman. If you know anything about attraction, then you should already know that this is a good thing and will help you to connect with her more deeply.

It is also something that eventually gets her to invest in you and wanting to meet up.

If your problem isn’t coming up with messages but instead struggle to understand a girl’s behavior, or why you fail to get responses/dates, then definitely get this program.

It can really change your text game if you are a creative guy. After internalizing the concepts taught in this course, you will have a pretty good idea where you have been going wrong in your texting.

The Bonuses

There are a lot of different bonuses on various topics. One of the bonuses is a 14-day trial access to another course that will teach you how to sexually communicate with women.

Some bonuses deal with talking to women like a one hour video called Endless Conversations where you learn never to run out of things to say. Others teach you how to approach and date hot women. There is even an hour-long video about how to go from friends to lovers.

Lastly, it’s worth mentioning that by buying this program, you will also get lifetime access to the members-only forum. The last time I checked it out, there are over 1,700 topics and 12,000 replies and the forum is very active with new member joining constantly.

The Weaknesses

  • Can be a bit confusing for a total beginner because it doesn’t tell you exactly what to do in every given situation (there is no step-by-step system).
  • Some ideas could have been more fleshed out.
  • This isn’t a flaw with the program itself but more on the technical side. If you are watching some of the videos using headphones, then the right speaker is almost soundless what can get a bit irritating.

The Strengths

  • Gives great situational advice. You will always have a good idea of how to respond to a woman’s messages.
  • Excellent advanced advice; goes beyond just texting by looking at the sub-communication in a text exchange.
  • Perfect for everyone who has the basics down but still struggles with texting women.
  • Great at getting women engaged and invested in you before you even meet up with them.
  • Plenty of exceptional bonuses

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How2TxtHer focuses more on the mindset, the attitude and all the subtleties that go behind your text exchanges than the messages itself.

If you are a creative guy, this program will really turn your text game around because you learn how to display yourself as a high-value guy.

It is quite easy to understand and implement and you won’t really get overwhelmed with many details. At the same time, you will have to pay close attention to what is being said and written.

This program is for everyone who already has a basic idea of how text game works. While there is no replacement for face-to-face interaction, this program will really help you to create a connection with a woman before you even meet up with her.