Power plays a key role in attraction. That’s why it’s no wonder that almost all women are attracted to power. They secretly desire a man who is powerful. There is, however, a misconception about power many guys still struggle to understand.
Many men are unclear about what kind of power this is that is so irresistible to girls and often this leads them to chase the wrong kind of things. That’s why this article will try to highlight one of the biggest misconceptions concerning power and women and give you a better idea what they actually want.
The Wrong Kind of Power
If you think about powerful men, the first thing that might come to your mind is the one thing most of them have in common – they have cash, a lot of it. To this day, guys still believe that women are only attracted to wealthy men because of their money. Therefore, they assume that the only way to get hot women, is to become wealthy themselves.
There’s no secret that money represents power. The majority of powerful people you met were also probably all wealthy. So, when you have a lot of money, you surely have power, right? It may sound logical, but if you start to analyze it more deeply, you will notice that the answer isn’t actually that simple. In fact, in most cases it is “no”.
The problem with this kind of reasoning is the assumption that guys who have become powerful, did it thanks to money. This might even be true for a few, but for most of them, it’s because they were already powerful to begin with. Most men are wealthy because they are powerful.
And if you are still in doubt, think about this: there are many men who are very rich but still have no success with women (that’s a fact!). They try hard to get a woman by giving her everything she asks for but still fail miserably because they don’t know what she actually wants. What’s even worse, the only women they attract with this kind of attitude are gold-diggers.
Because too many men assume that the power they need comes from money, they fail to see what is actually important. And that’s why they lack what’s needed to attract women themselves. So what kind of power is actually important?
The Power That Attracts Women
The power I am talking about doesn’t come from any external factors like money. This power can be found only within you. And I’m not talking about spiritual power or something like that. I am talking about the raw masculine power – something every guy has. Some men just have more of it than others.
Women can sense this kind of masculine power in men, and this is a huge turn-on for them. That’s why some men who aren’t particularly rich or handsome still have the hottest women chasing them. They know how to bring out this raw masculine power.
So, if you want to have success with the women, you have to find yours. In order to do that, you have to let go of all the external factors that you think will make you significant. Money, a fast car, a big house, designer clothes and other things are all nice, but they don’t really define you as a man. Take them away, and what’s left, is the true you.
That’s why, whenever you want to attract women, never use stuff you own. Instead, think of what you, as a man, can offer to a woman. Don’t assume you have to provide for her or shower her with things, this way you only come across as overcompensating. It will just let a woman know that you don’t feel secure in your own body and need things to make up for it.
The only thing she needs from you is your uniqueness. You might think that this sound cheesy but it’s true. No real woman wants to meet a guy who needs things to make up for his shortcomings, she wants to meet a man with a great character. If you can give that to her, she will want to be with you.
Never assume your worth as a man depends on the things you own. If you understand this and know that you can offer her more than money can buy, you will be a powerful man.
Women are attracted to power – the masculine power! A man who recognizes that the most important thing he can offer to a woman is himself, is in touch with his masculine power. Find it in yourself and you will be attractive and have success with women!
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