At some point in our lives, we all want to find someone we can settle down with. So, it makes perfect sense to find the right person, someone who is actually going to see you as a long-term investment and won’t betray your trust. But how do you find somebody like that? I mean, for some, it’s really hard to find just a girlfriend, so finding a person who is going to stay true to you should be even harder, right?
Well, actually no, if you know what you are doing. And the good news is that there is something you can actually do about it. But this also means that you have to take some responsibility for your own actions and not hope that somehow the girl of your dreams will just walk into your life.
The Secret to Getting a Loyal Girlfriend
If you want a quality girlfriend, someone who actually stays loyal to you, then you need to do two things: 1) find her and 2) know how to make her stay. Only if you meet both of these requirements, will you be able to get the woman you always wanted.
So, without further ado, let’s take a closer look at them:
1) Find her. It’s really no secret that dating is basically a numbers game. The more women you meet, the more likely it is for you to find the right one. It might happen that the very first girl you meet is your soul mate, but this is extremely unlikely. So don’t count on it. That’s why you need to go out and meet a lot of women.
On your search, do not settle down with the very first one because you don’t want to be alone. If you want to find a quality girl you also need to have standards. Usually, you are going to meet a lot of girls before you can actually find the right person. So, only settle down when you are confident that the girl you want as your girlfriend is, in fact, the one. But how do you know whether she’s going to stay loyal to you or not?
Unless you know for certain that a girl is willing to cheat on her boyfriend just to meet someone else, there really aren’t any good indicators of what kind of woman will stay loyal. That’s why you have to rely mostly on your gut feeling and watch out for red flags that she could be breaking your trust. Resist jumping to conclusions, but also don’t settle down with a girl you aren’t 100% sure about.
Just one thing I think you should avoid doing on your search for “the one” is to assume that a girl is going to be a bad long-term investment if she sleeps with you on the first date. This kind of thinking will only work against you in the long run and disqualify some quality women you could meet.
2) Know how to keep her. Trust me, finding her is actually the easy part. Making her want to stay is where the real challenge begins. If you want her to stay with you, you can’t naively assume she will want to stay just because she is now in a relationship. Especially, if you don’t even live up to her standards and expectations. Yes, women have them too!
A lot of guys misguidedly believe that getting a girl to commit to a relationship is all it takes to make her stay; since they already have her, they don’t have to put any effort into the relationship anymore. Some even throw in the wedding ring to “lock her in” so she won’t leave. By doing this, they assume that the hard work is done and from now on, it’s going to be smooth sailing. So they let themselves go and then blame her when she either leaves or cheats on them (although cheating is never justified!).
Now, there is no denying that some girls will cheat on her boyfriends no matter what. But if you have at least basic social skills, you will recognize such girls easily. Usually, a girl will only cheat on a guy when he has lost touch with his masculinity and has become a wimp. When he becomes someone who can’t be considered a quality man anymore. And since most women don’t want to date wimps, they will either leave or cheat.
Thus, if you want a girlfriend who stays loyal to you, you first have to be the kind of guy who is worth of one. If you aren’t boyfriend material, there is just no way a quality girl will ever want to stay with you. Even if they aren’t going to cheat on you, they will still just leave, because you’re not the kind of man they want. If a girl thinks of you as the best, her Mr. Right, then she will never want to leave you, or cheat on you! But this is of course as long as you stay this guy.
If you want to know how to become such a man, I suggest reading this article.
The Right Way to Get a Loyal Girlfriend
Finding the right girlfriend is going to take time, effort and some discipline. Therefore, don’t assume you will find one easily. You will have to meet a lot of girls and resist the urge to try to “make it work” with the first one (or second, or third) that happens to come along just because it’s too hard to be single. Go out and meet the one that is truly worth it and then do everything in your power to also make her stay. Be the kind of man she will want to keep. Just don’t expect anything of this to be easy!
Of course, I could go on and on about how to get a loyal girlfriend, but here is something much better. If you truly are serious about finding a girl who will want to stay your girlfriend, then there is a way to make it at least a bit easier for you. You just need to get the Girlfriend Activation System that is a step-by-step video course that specializes in teaching you how to get into a lasting and healthy relationship with the girl of your choosing.
It covers everything I talked about in this article and provides you the needed skillset and the mindset to attract girls (remember, you have to meet many to find the right one) and make one of them your loyal girlfriend. So take a look at it and decide for yourself.
But if you still doubt me, take a look at my review here and I’m sure you are going to see why this will be the perfect course for someone in your situation.
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