So, you went out and met an awesome girl. Unfortunately, you didn’t have enough time to hang out with her and get to know her better. But the good news is that you got her number! She even hinted about meeting you again. After that, you two parted ways, and you haven’t talked to her yet.
This has to mean that you have a good chance of seeing her again, right? If you only played your cards right, she might even end up as your girlfriend! But right now, you only have her number. So, what now?
If you aren’t the kind of guy who immediately calls a girl when he has her number, your best option is to text her. Not only is this a great alternative to calling, but it also gives you the luxury of coming up with things to say. But how exactly do you text a girl you barely know? How do you start the message? What do you say?
What to Text a Girl I Just Met?
The very first thing you should do when you are texting a girl is to make your messages interesting. Therefore, avoid starting a conversation with boring, average texts like “what’s up?” or “how are you?”. In fact, try to avoid such dull messages altogether whenever you are texting any girl, ever! Every message you send should have an adventurous vibe to it and make her anticipate your next one (to learn this, check out Text That Girl).
For this reason, always start your first message with something funny, preferably something you did together. This is because of two reasons:
1) She might not remember you anymore if you met her somewhere where she runs into a lot of people (club or bar environment), therefore texting her and bringing up something you both experienced reminds her who you are.
2) It creates immediately an image in her mind about the two of you and the fun you had together.
Bringing up something like this, even a joke you both had when you were together, is guaranteed way of getting a positive response from a woman. Another great thing about this kind of text is that when she responds, you already have something to talk about and can continue from there.
Now, when you are confident that she will remember you but your interaction with her wasn’t particularly memorable, you can send her a funny text like “Stop thinking about me!”. This kind of message is great because it gives you the vibe of a funny and cocky guy – someone women love. When she likes you, she will probably respond with something funny as well, or even admit that she, in fact, did think about you.
From there, continue you with funny and exciting. But keep your messages short and light. Don’t try to create serious discussions with her because it kills the mood (you can have them when you are already dating her). Also, send her something you find genuinely funny and not something you think she might like. Seeing how she reacts to your messages is a good way of telling you if you are compatible.
Also, never expect her to pick up the slack in your conversations. Unless she is really attracted to you and messages you first, you have to be the one who leads the conversation. You should still be the one who brings fun and excitement in the text exchange. You are leading and she is just reacting to you, not the other way around.
Taking Texting to Another Level
Knowing what to text a girl is very important if you want to make her attracted to you. For this reason, you need to know exactly what you are doing, especially if you text a girl you barely know. You should also have a basic understanding how attraction works and how to start a text conversation with a woman. Knowing these things will help you to take it from just messaging her to dating her.
You probably already know that the tips I just gave you are quite basic. That’s why you should take a look at this course that goes further into this topic and teaches you how to message women so they reply.
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